I have not written a blog post in a while, but I have my reasons (of course). It's not like nothing happened. Things happened, but no one cares about them and honestly I am not really keen on the idea sharing them in the vast Internet space. Call me an odd blogger, I do not really care. I spent these couple of days at a slightly different way than the usual. I was reading a bit more and now my book is almost over. This is what happens when I was not around a computer or the Internet for that matter.
I am currently reading 'A Prayer for Owen Meany' and it is a book which is never getting boring. I have not been reading much fiction this year but this book is...different. It is not the usual cliche, there is no romance, no break ups, not the usual drama. The events that occur in this book are really tragical and meanwhile the author keeps it fresh. Irving is a really good writer. The plot is quite original and the characters are quite remarkable. The end is probably gonna be tragical, but it does not make me sad like the usual tragic-ending-books. Those who have read it will probably know why.I must say I am impressed and those who know me well, books need to work hard to impress me.
Besides that book, I have been reading other stuff and drawing. My art was not that successful, but the thing is that I was not trying to make it that successful. I used it more for art therapy than expressing my talent (let's assume I have some). I was also looking at various websites and various stuff from change of food to how to make a top knot and a messy high bun. Don't judge me, it is quite useful if you think about it.
The more important part is that I try to hassle less, think less and not tbeing such a whiny (I still can't manage the last one).
Patience. This is something I also hardly manage and I find how valuable it is. I don't really know what might be the reason for my impatience, whether is the fact that I was born half a month earlier or that I am always in a hurry. Foo Fighters probably know what patience is, judging by their previous album.
In conclusion, this post has no particular meaning, no aim or theme. It is just my blah-blahs, because I had a lot of blah-blahs going on in my head and this is time to be out. You see my problem now, I have no clear notion how to name it, maybe it is going to be somethinig completely random, but judging by what my cousin told me last week- I am an odd person.
29 Aug 2012
6 Aug 2012
Female friendships....and how to avoid them.
Today’s blog topic is going to be about female
friendships.Yes,ladies,you heard me.Don’t pretend it does not concern
you,because it does.
Everyone can describe the term ‘friendship’ in a different way. However, the general meaning is pretty obvious: loyalty,understanding,comfort,sharing, etc (not necessary in that order). Nevertheless, the term ‘female friendship’ is a bit different, a bit…twisted. I will not enter in details and characterising adolescent,pre-adolescent and early adult age groups. Let’s just focus on the females between 16 and 25.
I have heard a lot about girls-to-girls fights, BFFs, ‘sisters’ and etc. The thing is that they are all the same, because most of the girls are all the same. Be aware-this is going to be a rant. I don’t like female friendships.You all girls can laugh at male conversations about how their friendships are stronger.I am sorry to admit it, but it’s true. You girls are weak in committing to long-term friendships. Even those who think that it does not concern them, it does, because you do it too. You find a friend, you spend some quality time with her (female friend) and then you decide somehow that this friend does not ‘understand’ you, is no fun anymore or someone else will do better.
I am not going to judge you, I am just fed up of those girls (women or just people) who never actually grasp the concept of understanding and being loyal or just simply caring. Yes, caring. Caring about someone’s else well-being and for a moment forgetting about your own every day moody drama. The other case scenario: let’s not bother those who are consistent friends, because right now we are too busy focusing on those people who are just more fun.
Sorry, all serious girls, people wanna have fun. They will either have too much fun or will be just too moody. What can I say, just accept it and best thing you can do is find a good male friend and stick with him, because males are right- female friendships are just plain and weak, like us.
Everyone can describe the term ‘friendship’ in a different way. However, the general meaning is pretty obvious: loyalty,understanding,comfort,sharing, etc (not necessary in that order). Nevertheless, the term ‘female friendship’ is a bit different, a bit…twisted. I will not enter in details and characterising adolescent,pre-adolescent and early adult age groups. Let’s just focus on the females between 16 and 25.
I have heard a lot about girls-to-girls fights, BFFs, ‘sisters’ and etc. The thing is that they are all the same, because most of the girls are all the same. Be aware-this is going to be a rant. I don’t like female friendships.You all girls can laugh at male conversations about how their friendships are stronger.I am sorry to admit it, but it’s true. You girls are weak in committing to long-term friendships. Even those who think that it does not concern them, it does, because you do it too. You find a friend, you spend some quality time with her (female friend) and then you decide somehow that this friend does not ‘understand’ you, is no fun anymore or someone else will do better.
I am not going to judge you, I am just fed up of those girls (women or just people) who never actually grasp the concept of understanding and being loyal or just simply caring. Yes, caring. Caring about someone’s else well-being and for a moment forgetting about your own every day moody drama. The other case scenario: let’s not bother those who are consistent friends, because right now we are too busy focusing on those people who are just more fun.
Sorry, all serious girls, people wanna have fun. They will either have too much fun or will be just too moody. What can I say, just accept it and best thing you can do is find a good male friend and stick with him, because males are right- female friendships are just plain and weak, like us.
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