Female friendships....and how to avoid them.

Today’s blog topic is going to be about female friendships.Yes,ladies,you heard me.Don’t pretend it does not concern you,because it does.

Everyone can describe the term ‘friendship’ in a different way. However, the general meaning is pretty obvious: loyalty,understanding,comfort,sharing, etc (not necessary in that order). Nevertheless, the term ‘female friendship’ is a bit different, a bit…twisted. I will not enter in details and characterising adolescent,pre-adolescent and early adult age groups. Let’s just focus on the females between 16 and 25.

I have heard a lot about girls-to-girls fights, BFFs, ‘sisters’ and etc. The thing is that they are all the same, because most of the girls are all the same. Be aware-this is going to be a rant. I don’t like female friendships.You all girls can laugh at male conversations about how their friendships are stronger.I am sorry to admit it, but it’s true. You girls are weak in committing to long-term friendships. Even those who think that it does not concern them, it does, because you do it too. You find a friend, you spend some quality time with her (female friend) and then you decide somehow that this friend does not ‘understand’ you, is no fun anymore or someone else will do better.

I am not going to judge you, I am just fed up of those girls (women or just people) who never actually grasp the concept of understanding and being loyal or just simply caring. Yes, caring. Caring about someone’s else well-being and for a moment forgetting about your own every day moody drama. The other case scenario: let’s not bother those who are consistent friends, because right now we are too busy focusing on those people who are just more fun.

Sorry, all serious girls, people wanna have fun. They will either have too much fun or will be just too moody. What can I say, just accept it and best thing you can do is find a good male friend and stick with him, because males are right- female friendships are just plain and weak, like us.